• Honytawk@lemmy.zip
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    1 month ago

    No it won’t. I tried that for 30 years with no success.

    For some people, if you don’t put in effort you will not get any of those things.

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      1 month ago

      It will, maintaining friendships and especially new ones requires a lot of effort. I’m saying when you meet people you don’t think they’ll be your SO, but rather a new friend. That’s now an entirely different conversation, one which has a much more relaxed nature, increasing the chances of a potential relationship.