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  • TexMexBazooka@lemm.ee
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    3 months ago

    I mean it’s actually an interesting point though?

    Men should be loved and cared for in a relationship too, not treated like shit by default.

    • Voyajer@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      That’s what I thought the comments would be about but apparently he should just get called creepy instead.

    • TheSambassador@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      Isn’t that the status quo? I guess it’s not really fathers to daughters, but most women I know went through some amount of “here’s how to be a good wife” lessons from their mothers or family. I think women get a lot of “traditional gender roles” training that’s mostly about being caretakers.

      Usually people putting forth this kinda “women should learn how to care for their man” attitude are coming from a conservative “traditional family values” position.

      Really, we should be teaching people how to ask about and learn the needs of their partner, and how to determine your own needs and communicate those to your partner. Basic emotional intelligence stuff. It doesn’t have to be gendered at all.

    • abbadon420@lemm.ee
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      3 months ago

      Well, I’m certainly not gonna teach my daughter to trust boys. That will lead to places I don’t even want to think about.

      • Delphia@lemmy.world
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        3 months ago

        My guy, the motivation is right but the thinking is wrong.

        You teach your daughter how to spot manipulative behavior, teach her how to stand up for and protect herself, teach your daughter how to respect herself AND others, teach her how to love herself AND others, teach her what a healthy relationship looks like…

        Boys will be boys, they will be dumb and horny teenagers and they will try shit, even with the absolute best of dumb horny boy intentions, also teenage lesbians are quite keen on trying shit too. You need to teach them to spot the difference between their first love and someone telling them what they want to hear in order to go up their shirt.